Will flock to gaze the strengthless dead, The Coffin award is given in honor of the life and ministry of William Sloane Coffin, former Chaplain to the University and one of the 20th century's most significant religious leaders. I also know this day-brightener of a son wouldnt wish to be held close by grief (nor, for that matter, would any but the meanest of our beloved departed) and that, interestingly enough, when I mourn Alex least I see him best. But you seem to be able to deal with these problems in a way that recalls some deep confidence. Cannot see the record cut, Get All Beings Everywhere delivered to your inbox. But I'm an atheist. But oh, the things I learned from her Elegant and curled William Sloane Coffin, a former Yale University chaplain known for his anti-war and peace activism, dies at the age of 81. 00:00 $ 75.00 Sermons from Riverside Church 1982 William Sloane Coffin Jr. preached these Sunday sermons from the pulpit of the Riverside Church in New York City. Into the darkness they go, the wise and the lovely. But violent deaths, such as the one Alex died to understand those is a piece of cake. As his younger brother put it simply, standing at the head of the casket at the Boston funeral, "You blew it, buddy. It is difficult to know how to theologise about a tragedy of this order without descending into cliche, trivialisation or offensiveness. Bill Coffin was such a man. The question seems more pointed given the context -- a group of devout believers making a religious pilgrimage -- but the same question is struggled over every day by people of faith who experience suffering or have to watch a loved one suffer. Heres how Coffin explained how he managed to write and deliver this eulogy so soon after his sons death (from an interview with Bill Moyers): COFFIN: Well. I was first introduced to this sermon years agoin a college communications course, and I have thought of it with surprising regularityever since. Why would someone grieve for a loved one who is in heaven or in paradise. My God, my God, why hast thou forsaken me? Yes, but at least, My God, my God; and the psalm only begins that way, it doesnt end that way. This is the last year of the complete 10 year collection of sermons. Why aren't people in the streets today the way they were in the civil rights movement, the antiwar movement? #Power Of Love #Truth #Love. Download Sermon Scripture List(84 kb - PDF). He liked it here. William Sloane Coffin Jr. (June 1, 1924 - April 12, 2006) was an American Christian clergyman and long-time peace activist. If a week ago last Monday, a lamp went out, it was because, for him at least, the Dawn had come. But left me none the wiser ABERNETHY: I spoke with Coffin about growing old. To them Western attitudes would be incomprehensible. Didnt the eagle find a fresh liver to tear in Prometheus every time it dined? When parents die, as my mother did last month, they take with them a large portion of the past. My dad, who became a doctor, has a weathered copy of Alexs Death which he has xeroxed on many occasions to give to friends and colleagues experiencing loss. Crowned with lilies and Laurel they go; but I am not resigned. William Sloane Coffin was a man with a wild career: he fought in World War II, worked for the CIA after the war, became a "man of the cloth", was thrown in jail as a civil rights marcher with Dr. Martin Luther King, and was an academic, author, and an activist. So people are feeling sorry for themselves instead of happy for the one they believe is now in heaven. If the order gets mixed up, thats misery. Kate Braestrups book is beautiful, and I highly recommend it to all who are seeking answers. Either it is god's will or there is no god! When she saw me, she shook her head, then headed for the kitchen, saying sadly over her shoulder, I just dont understand the will of God. Instantly I was up and in hot pursuit, swarming all over her. RN: What should the U.S. government do now? And of course I know, even when pain is deep, that God is good. Fragrant is the blossom. As his younger brother put it simply, standing at the head of the casket at the Boston funeral, You blew it, buddy. For. by Rev. Ten days after his son, Alex, was killed in a car accident, Reverend William Sloane Coffin delivered this sermon to his congregation at Riverside Church in New York City. When sorrow walked with me. William Sloane Coffin challenged the nation with his passionate calls for social justice. Another consolation, of course, will be the learning which better be good, given the price. Hope arouses, as nothing else can arouse, a passion for the possible., I love the recklessness of faith. If a week ago last Monday, a lamp went out, it was because, for him at least, the Dawn had come. That's the puzzlement of it all. We chaired you through the market-place; Coffin delivered his sermon "Eulogy for Alex" at Riversid e Church. Ralph Nader: With the majority of Americans in poll after poll turning against the U.S. war and occupation in Iraq and with many retired Generals, diplomats and intelligence officials opposed to the invasion in the first instance why is the organized opposition not greater? William Sloane Coffin, Jr. was born to considerable wealth and social position on June 1, 1924, in New York City. William Sloane Coffin Sr. (April 15, 1879 - December 16, 1933) was an American businessman. Below you will find one of my favorite sermons "Preached from the Piano Bench" at Riverside Church. I was reminded today of this beautiful eulogy by the late William Sloane Coffin for his 24-year-old son, Alex, and I wanted to share it with you. Instantly I was up and in hot pursuit, swarming all over her. Never do we know enough to say that. Embed. O magnify the Lord with me, and let us exalt his name together. But was he a criminal? I know how lucky I am! 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William Sloane Coffin. Among the healing flood of letters that followed his death was one carrying this wonderful quote from the end of Hemingways A Farewell to Arms: The world breaks everyone, then some become strong at the broken places.. And home we brought you shoulder-high. The night after Alex died I was sitting in the living room of my sisters house outside of Boston, when the front door opened and in came a nice-looking, middle-aged woman, carrying about eighteen quiches. When sorrow walked with me. Details are given further below. Notify me of follow-up comments by email. ashington, Jan. 5--Five men, including Dr. Benjamin Spock, the author and pediatrician, and the Rev. Cars skid out of control on icy roads, healthy cells are consumed by cancerous ones. Didnt the eagle find a fresh liver to tear in Prometheus every time it dined?. We all do what we know how to do, maybe. And silence sounds no worse than cheers 15 So while trite, its true: I walked a mile with Pleasure, She chattered all the way; But left me none the wiser For all she had to say. January 6, 1968 Spock and Coffin Indicted For Activity Against Draft By FRED P. GRAHAM . What do you think it is? These are all end of sermon prayers from the Sunday sermon delivered at Riverside Church. There are small accidents, like knocking over your milk at the dinner table. When she saw me, she shook her head, then headed for the kitchen, saying sadly over her shoulder, "I just don't understand the will of God." Read more. I sought the Lord, and he heard me, ABERNETHY: Coffin rails at neglect of the poor and U.S. policies in Iraq. Your email address will not be published. Down, down, down into the darkness of the grave. The Theology of William Sloane Coffin Thursday, February 15, 2007 Eulogy for Alex Ten days after his son, Alex, was killed in a car accident, Reverend William Sloane Coffin delivered this sermon to his congregation at Riverside Church in New York City. But the things I learned from her Reverend William Sloane Coffin was an outspoken minister, long-time civil rights advocate, and international peace movement activist. I know that. Itsjust one of those things I think is worth a read by all. ABERNETHY: As he conducts what he calls his lover's quarrel with his country, Coffin acknowledges that he has to be careful not to become self-righteous himself -- perhaps especially when he is honored, as he is often. The Rev William Sloane Coffin A radical preacher and antiwar activist, he took on the American establishment Christopher Reed Thu 13 Apr 2006 19.04 EDT The upbringing of William Sloane. Coffin about his experiences as a Freedom Rider from NPR; Read a transcript of an interview with Rev. I was first introduced to this sermon years agoin a college communications course, and I have thought of it with surprising regularityever since. Ten days after Alex's death, he delivered this extraordinary sermon to his congregation at Riverside Church in New York City. Program, Strengthen Your Tribe: A Report on the Atomic Athlete Vanguard, The Best Riddles for Kids (With Answers! Click the cart icon next to a sermon in the player below to add a sermon to your cart. All too often we speak when we should be listening Here If You Need Me by Kate Braestrup is the autobiography of the chaplain for the Maine game warden who herself was widowed with four young children when her husband a state trooper was killed in a car accident. And that's what happens to the horror of all those townsfolk. My own broken heart is mending, and largely thanks to so many of you, my dear parishioners; for if in the last week I have relearned one lesson, it is that love not only begets love, it transmits strength. Because there are no rankling unanswered questions, and because Alex and I simply adored each other, the wound for me is deep, but clean. You will also find a collection of his prayers that concluded many of his sermons. Moved Permanently. Please consider upgrading your browser software or enabling style sheets (CSS) if you are able to do so. See more stories about iPad, HBO, How-To. Rev. In a prideful way it would be easier to walk the valley alone, nobly, head high, instead of as we must marching as the latest recruit in the worlds army of the bereaved. Download. While you will be able to view the content of this page in your current browser, you will not be able to get the full visual experience. Welcome to the sermons and prayers download page. 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